Reflection

Maybe I have said this before. Galileo was pretty sure the earth moved around the sun instead of opposite. (Insert the noise of chopping off someone's head, here.)

You could be "wrong," as you've stated, about a life path, passion or decision/choice. I guess you could only be truly "wrong" if you played out the years; the hundreds or thousands of years. Right in one time doesn't me "right" in another. (Time being a relative concept--talk to that bouncer at the Irish Bar for clarification.) You could be ahead of your time. You could be inches from the guillotine when they discover that the world really is INDEED round, and not flat. Call the bluff. The worst thing that could happen is being forgotten. The second worst: overdue emulation, a century or two later. Leave that worry to the next generation. I mean, look at Jesus. Still riding on his post-crucifix fame-- think of the staying power!

My only other offering is to commit. Commit to your choice, even it is for the day, the summer, six months or a year(s). Don't spend much time deliberating. The days unfold like "flower petals blooming"--you will see the whole picture in time. Allow for maturation and bloom, if the answer isn't immediately clear. Then, when you feel the impulse, the door opening while the train is moving--duck, jump and roll!

That is all I have. Sleep deprived, slightly delirious, the sunset over George's boat tattooed to the back of my eyelids. Enough said.

Almost. Love and miss you, A.

P.S. What I learned today from my cousin Gail: It's not me. It never was. (What a relief.)
In my own family, I found a soul sista. Ahh...

Scrubs joke: The only difference from a black girl and a white girl, is that when a black girl asks you if her ass is big, you say, "hell yeh!"

When Souls Depart

Eva died today. Around 11am, I heard, though I was nearly to Traverse. Last night, "The Gooch" and I sat by her bed till about midnight listening, as labored breath moved in and out of her body. Tonight, as I visited her empty room, the little dog refused to leave. He sniffed around as though there was something there, and I cannot escape the feeling that maybe there was...

Yesterday, hours before, I stopped by to visit my friend Carrie, to help celebrate her birthday and share a gift. In the passing, albeit brief, she shared with me the story of her morning dream and how she had vividly recalled her birth and the joy her parents felt that day. She was the firstborn, the celebratory culmination of nine years of infertility. Until the 19th of November, one lucky year. Tears nestled in the corners of her eyes, as she recounted the story, the morning of her rebirth, as she realized how exited and open the universe of two--mother and father--were to adventure her birth, this new and glorious life.

For me, stories and lives overlap, layers of cells stacked deep. Archeology of souls, busy excavating the depths, and moments as they are quickly turned to midden. Rejoice for one life! Grieve at the passing of another. Same day. Coming, going, birthing, dying. All in this circle and the concerto drowns out the moaning, floods the hallways of doubt and debate. What we know is that we are here for now. Who cares why? We live to discover, maybe that is the why? In the meantime--celebrate!

Last Days

We are all marked men.

Our days are numbered: some sooner, later. The day ends and Eva breathes, the last to come and still. We wait. Move our youthful bodies by day, but wait. Yielding to death, the dying, only as an after thought. Thoughts of such occurred today, feeding and walking the dog, as usual. Living, as usual. Celebrating a friend's birthday, a young life.

From "Home Burial," by Robert Frost:

The nearest friends can go
With anyone to death, comes so far short
They might as well not try to go at all.
No, from the time when one is sick to death,
One is alone, and he dies more alone.
Friends make pretense of following to the grave,
But before one is in it, their minds are turned
And making the best of their way back to life
And living people, and things they understand.

His character speaks as though in opposition of this stance. As though we have a choice to follow one to the grave--to go as close as possible and risk the falling in, too. Are humans really wired for death? Dying? I mean, effectively embracing the death of another and living beyond?

In this time, it seems that we are more geared for life. Four hundred excuses strong as to why it is better to be alive than dead, when we can and will not know for certain, till then. I recall when my father's wife died, I had not, as of that time, lost any close family members and I felt lucky--young and lucky. I consciously remember considering what it must feel like to lose someone you love; the thought now seems luxurious. What happens to those left behind, I wondered? And then it happened...

Body Worlds

Living
lips
engorged
with
a
thousand
capillaries
must
be
kissed--
frequently!

Remembering

Van parked out front.

I walk downstairs, passing dining room.
Ewa says to me, "where are the dogs?"
No "good morning" or "hello,"just--
'where are the dogs?'

Like Pavlov's dogs salivating
at the sound of a bell,
Eva's heart palpitates at the
thought of puppies!

I respond, he's not here,
I just drove the van home-
but when the dogs come again,
I'll let them in the room
to lick your face!

Her eyes suggest agreement.

Sin Titilo-Untitled

(What I learned from the art museum)

Maybe there are other lives
reincarnations
other chances to live our truths

Side by side
the paintings
true and vibrant
did not merge into one

Your bold hues:
vivid kindness, fierce independence, self-introspection
Have upon my canvas bled.

Manitou Illuminated

The South Manitou Island Light ... relit !

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